‘ To play in tune, you must first tune yourself ‘
You don’t need an ”I” to listen to sounds. The idea of an ”I” is imagination. Accept what is. Be and stay relax. Be aware of the space wherein sounds are manifest. Being more aware of space instead of sounds will take the sounds to the infinity. You can call this silence. Silence is that what you are. The condition to be who you are, is being relax at any time without resistence to flow with the sounds. They will bring you in deep meditation.